I had read blogs by people who are into BDSM, and I had Anne Rice’s Sleeping Beauty Trilogy boxed set. Despite all my recklessness and impulsivity, even I cannot claim to have been completely unaware of kink before I jumped right into it. That doesn’t work for everyone, though, and doing research before for any endeavor is always a sound move. I am a visual-kinesthetic learner, and I have to actually experience something to learn it, so I would say I learned about kink as I went along. (For the curious, that’s Bondage/Discipline, Domination/submission, and Sadomasochism.) The term “bunny” is specifically used to refer to rope bottoms, or the one being tied up, while the “rigger” is the one doing the tying. Most dominants are the ones doing the topping, and most subs do the bottoming. The term “top” simply means being the giver and the one in charge of the scene, while the “bottom” is the receiver of the actions. Now it has become an integral part of the image that I present to the public.Ī lot of BDSM-related activities are mostly about playing with power dynamics, as is evident in the jargon used, like “dominant,” “submissive,” “top,” and “bottom.” “Dominant” and “submissive” are self-explanatory. Obviously, it is not advisable to try kink on impulse, but it was something that I never looked back from.
I rightfully earned the label “reckless” from said photographer, and he became my dominant for a time.
Still, I dove right in, and I got my first experience as a rope bottom, also called a rope bunny. Perhaps the fact that she was a big name in the kink community should have tipped me off. As with most of the things that I currently do, I got into this unplanned.Ī friend thought I would be interested in shooting with a photographer she worked with.
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